By Mary Toth
This can be one the most difficult and emotional times you will endure in your life. You miss him, you miss all the things you did together, you feel helpless and alone. If you are serious about wanting him back, there are many things you should, and should NOT do. Keeping a level head, no matter how crazy your emotions are at this time is so very important. It’s hard, trust me…I’ve been there.
Can you relate to any of the following?
* Loss of appetite or binge eating
* Not listening to music because every song upsets you
* Calling him several times a day
* Begging him to come back
* Not leaving the house because you are afraid you’ll miss a call
* Analyzing and re-analyzing EVERY aspect of your relationship
* Constant checking email/voice mail to see if he called
* Feeling more depressed then ever
* Constantly thinking about what you “should have said”
* Apologizing continuously for everything you “think” you did wrong
Unfortunately, the list could go on and on. …and of course with every word we say, no matter what our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant he will become. I did ALL of those things above and more. Yes, he came back. But, it lasted only for a few weeks, and I think it was just out of pity. Then, he broke up with me again. I was totally devastated! I frantically began looking for information on relationships, doing endless reading and posting on relationship boards, etc. I finally found the answers! Basically, EVERYTHING I DID WAS WRONG! Now, I cringe when I think about how much I messed up that first time!
Getting him back is a simple practice that almost anyone who is seriously in love can accomplish. With time, patience and knowledge of the “right way” to go about it, anything is possible. Don’t wait until he has moved on with his life. Take action while the breakup is still fresh. We are still together after two years. I hope it will work for you, I know what you’re going through and I want to help.
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