Break-ups are never easy and rarely painless. Your first reaction is usually to get her back no matter what. This often entails pleading with her for another chance, following her around or sending random text messages at night. Such actions will only drive your ex away. Instead, you need to let her go if you want to get her back – and, in this article, you will discover the truth of this seemingly counter-intuitive approach.
Face the facts – if she dumped you, she doesn’t want you around. The more you run after her, the more she will resent you. If you continue bugging her, she will eventually snap and tell you to get lost – this time, for good.
Instead, turn the tables and give her what she wants. Cut all contact with her for two weeks. Don’t return her phone calls and don’t get in touch with her. Pretend that she doesn’t exist – and, for the next two weeks, go do your own thing. Spend time with friends. Hit the gym. Go out and have fun – even if all you can think of is her.
It sounds crazy, but it’s actually the best way to win her back. It works because it shows her that you’re strong enough to move on. If she wants you back, she’ll know she has to make a move – fast.
It also gives her a taste of what life without you will be like. She will never have a reason to miss you as long as you keep calling her. Now that you’re gone, she will start wondering whether you met someone new. She will also ask herself if she really enjoys a life without you – and, in most cases, she will decide that it’s just not worth it.
After two weeks of silence, she will usually call first – if she doesn’t, it’s ok to give her a call. Act as if nothing has happened. Pretend that you’re just good friends and have a nice, entertaining chat. If it goes well, offer to meet for lunch in the coming week.
If she agrees, it means that she is ready to be taken back. All that remains is to gently ease her back into the relationship without scaring her away. To discover how to do it, click here to visit my website where I review techniques I used to get my own ex back in as little as 17 days.
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