By Liv Cole
The time right after a breakup is difficult for both you and your ex, whether you initiated the break up or not. One of the most frustrating things that can happen is one will tend to avoid the other. If you’re getting the cold shoulder from your ex, here are some tips to get them to stop avoiding you:
1. If you’re trying to communicate with your ex too soon, they might still not be ready to face you yet. Allow them space of a week or two to see if they initiate contact with you first. Eventually curiosity will get the better of them and they will get in touch with you. If it has been long enough and you’re missing them terrible. Drop them a brief note or phone message.
2. If your ex has reasons to not forgive you very quickly, send them a sincere apology, try to be unique with the apology. The more unique the better, the element of surprise will knock down their defenses faster than any other way. Just make sure it is sincere but not going to annoy or offend them in any way.
3. If you could, try to talk with your ex’s family or friends and try to remain on good terms with them. The more your ex sees you are getting along with the people around him or her, the sooner they will soften to your presence.
4. Once some time has past between you, try to surprise your ex by showing up at a place or time they would least expect it. Just make sure you don’t do it too soon after the break up or they might become very annoyed and angry.
5. Talk to them with a calm composure. Do not make a scene, whether they say something to really upset you or not. Keep the feelings inside as much as you can until they are out of your sight.
6. Remain agreeable and caring, you want their best interest at heart.
These tips should get you on good terms with your ex. If you want to keep the lines of communication up, you need to do it slowly and always take your cue from them. Although it may seem as if all is lost. The opportunity to reconcile and make them fall in love with you again is still possible.
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