By Mark A Myers
Could this ever really happen? It is not only possible but probable. There are mental judo techniques that when performed properly no ex can withstand. Would you like your ex to battle with you instead of against you to save your relationship? You can stop the pain and get your ex to come crawling back.
Currently you may be feeling, yeah right, they won’t even take my calls. I appreciate how you feel. Understand thousands of others have felt exactly the same way. However, when they found the system I am speaking of, they couldn’t believe their eyes. They were moving on with their relationships, quickly. Using specialized techniques, you can get your ex to come crawling back.
It’s not too late, yet.
Even if they are with someone else, this can be used to your advantage. Believe it or not, the more small battles you seem to lose, the better your chance at winning the war. Almost every rebound relationship fails. Over 95 percent of rebound relationships fail. Just continue on with your battle plan, and trust you will prove the rule.
Do not panic.
What will not work is trying to make your ex jealous, pleading, and begging. Have you wondered why gold and diamonds are so expensive? They are perceived to be rare and hard to come by. Conversely, you can buy a ton of gravel for a few dollars. If you constantly pester them with text messages and emails, they know they can have you back. The only thing you will accomplish is proving your desperation to them.
They are thinking of you.
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? If you remove the behavior they are upset about (hounding them or threatening them) the human brain will quickly eliminate them from the thought process, leaving only the pleasant memories. Prove me right. Think about a friend you had a fight with a couple of years ago. The first things that come to mind are the fun you had together, not the fight. If you TRY you can only remember bits and pieces of the rift you had.
People’s biggest fear
People despise being inconsistent. Humans are creatures of habit, so they remain consistent. That is why alcoholics are never cured. They see themselves as problem drinkers, and they are. It becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.
Your ex broke up with you because they either saw themselves as inconsistent staying with you, or they see you as being inconsistent. One of these two will emerge if you dig deep enough. You must help them prove to themselves it would be inconsistent to not be together with you. You are not being manipulative, simply helping them make the right decision for both of you. Don’t worry, they will never know.
Here is the proof.
This story is paraphrased from Robert Chaldini’s book – Persuasion, The Art of Influence.
People went into a suburban neighborhood and asked 100 homeowners if they could put a large gaudy billboard in their yard that said “Keep California Beautiful”. 97 said no. They then asked 100 different homeowners if they would put a small sticker on their garage window that said “Keep California Beautiful.” It was such a small request 97 said yes. Two weeks later the same 97 people who said yes to the small sticker were asked if they would allow them to put up the same unsightly gaudy billboard in their yard. Over 2 thirds said yes. It was consistent with what they had done in the past.
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