by Wilson Snyder
There are many incredibly powerful secrets to winning back your Ex and NOT making the same errors that led to your breakup in the first place. In this article, I will talk about one of the most unique and powerful techniques no one has discussed before — your own personal “make-over”!
Here’s what I mean…
Can you recall a smell that brings back powerful memories? Good or bad? I sure can… See, humans unconsciously link emotions to sights, sounds and smells. And at the beginning of a relationship there are no “linked” emotions to a persons appearance, unless the person reminds them of somebody.
But as the relationship progresses, good feelings start to associate with the appearance, sound and smell of a person. Bad feelings may associate too, but at the beginning of a relationship there are typically more “good feelings” than bad. We associate pleasure with the tangible features of another person. This is all great when the relationship is going well. It is these “linked feelings” that will keep us attracted through the rough times.
But what happens in failing relationships, is bad experiences and feelings start to overtake the good experiences. And now we link bad feelings to the tangible features of the other person. We have a pattern. See this person, and bad feelings well up. There may be some good too, but overall the balance has tipped to the negative.
What we need to do is BREAK THE PATTERN.
There are literally dozens of ways to look, smell and even sound different, so that when we contact and meet our Ex again he/she does not see the same pattern and bad “linked feelings” as when the relationship failed.
What happens is we start on fresh ground, psychologically speaking. This is an unconscious process. This has an even more powerful effect when the change demonstrates a greater care for ourselves: If we were to lose weight, get our teeth whitened or get our acne cleared up for example. Further, it gives us increased confidence which is a potent aphrodisiac…
This personal “make-over” strategy is just one of the advanced relationship techniques and philosophies that I will discover. If you are struggling in getting your Ex back, or if you need more guidance on building a plan of action, you need to visit RelationshipTactics.com or visit it’s blog at http://www.RelationshipTactics.com/blog
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