Breaking up is hard to do, so the famous song goes, but when one of the couple doesn’t want to break up then it’s even harder. Getting an ex girlfriend back is hard for sure, but not impossible, once you’ve shared something special with someone, there’s always a chance to rekindle things if you go about it in the right way.
You need to find out the reasons she broke up with you. You can ask her directly, or even ask her friends, you need to know the truth, however much it may hurt you to know. Your plan for winning her back relies on knowing what it was that put her off you in the first place.
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Getting Back Together With Your Ex Girlfriend
Don’t act aggressive. Don’t be macho, it’s a time to swallow your pride, grow up a little, and take on board criticism. Also, don’t beg or become a nuisance with endless texts and calls, desperation is one surefire way to turn her off you for good.
Next thing to do is make a list of all the good things about her and all the positive things you did together. Then write her a letter if you’re good with words, explaining how you feel about her, mentioning things that worked in the relationship and how you envisage a future together. At this stage take some responsibility for the breakup, let her know you’ve made mistakes and that you are willing to change.
But it’s important not to pressurize her or try to force an answer from her, give her time and space but let her know that you still want her and that you can change. It could be other pressures worrying her; family, work, health, that you don’t know about. By being supportive and giving her time to sort things through, you will give yourself a good chance of being there when she wants to talk.
It could be that there isn’t any one particular thing you’ve done wrong, maybe she just needs some time, but it’s important to let her know that you’re still there, and when she’s ready. The relationship can take off and be even better than before.
If you love her and want her badly, there is a good chance she will feel the same way, whatever it was that made her breakup with you has to be overcome.
Getting your ex girlfriend back is not going to be an easy walk in the park. Take your time, don’t pressurize her, let know how you feel and you may, in a short time have a very good chance of being a couple again.
