By Ben E Dixon
You had a breakup and you are hurting. You realized your mistake and want to get back with your ex. Well, let me tell you how to get an ex back in your life.
I learnt a lot when I went through the same. So let me share my experiences with you which will help you in winning back your ex. Naturally, we had a terrible fight and ended up by going through a breakup.
Let me tell you that the first thing you should do after the breakup is not to contact him/ her immediately. Don’t make her/ him think that you are desperate, although you may be feeling the exact opposite.
In my personal opinion this time should be utilized to reflect and address the issues giving rise to the conflicts in your relationship. And once you are able to focus on the problem, try to rectify it. You should see if any changes are needed from your side too.
You have to make her/him feel that you will be able provide them whatever he/she is looking for in the relationship.
You should not try to make him/ her jealous by latching on to someone. Believe me; this act will be counterproductive in the long run. You are just trying to make them feel insecure. And as most men and women are already insecure, he/she will withdraw more into themselves or will find someone who will understand their worth.
After a week or so of the breakup try to start a communication channel with your ex. I understand it is an uphill task. Taking help of a mutual friend is an effective way to start the point of contact.
Remember the key to getting back your ex is by winning their trust and faith in you once again. So start small. Make him/her feel comfortable in your presence by having small talks about general topics, or by giving tasteful compliments. It will make them feel you are around and still care.
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